Keep messages short, polite and in writing. Email or text is better than a phone call, because a message has a timestamp. If you take a call, follow it with a message that summarizes what was said.
Before pickup: the rate con differs from the agreement
“Hello. The rate on the rate confirmation is $X. We agreed on $Y. Please send a corrected rate confirmation. I will not move the truck until I receive it.”
Before pickup: the broker asks you to accept less
“I understand the shipper changed the budget. My rate for this load is $Y, as on the signed rate confirmation. If you want a different rate, please send a revised rate confirmation and I will review it.”
At the dock: a stop or a change is added
“The dock says there is an extra stop that is not on my rate confirmation. Please send a revised rate confirmation with the new stop and the new rate before I continue.”
If the dock cannot wait and you decide to go, write this first: “I am continuing under protest. I expect the added stop to be paid as an extra. Please confirm in writing.” For how extra time and stops are normally billed, see detention, TONU and layover pay.